Birdnesting is a relatively new concept in divorce and custody arrangements where the children remain in the family home while the parents take turns living there. It can be an attractive option for parents who want to prioritize their children's stability and...
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How California decides what is in your child’s best interests
When you and your child’s parent disagree about parenting time and decision-making responsibilities, you may need the state of California to step in. Judges consider many different variables when making decisions about where your child should spend his or her time and...
How does parental alienation affect children?
If you have a shared-custody arrangement, you expect your ex-spouse to treat you and your parent-child relationships with respect. Sadly, though, too many parents use children as pawns, especially after bitter divorces. Indeed, your ex might actively try to turn your...
Relocation and the best interests of the child standard
Major changes happen in life, and a promotion at work that requires you to relocate across the state may be one of them. If you are a custodial parent, you will have to show the court that a move with your young son meets the best interests of the child standard....
How do you help children adjust to living at two houses?
If you and your spouse decided to divorce, you may have concerns about what your life will look like moving forward. You may also worry about how your children will cope with this major change in their lives. Although, according to the Institute for Family Studies,...
Is joint custody a good idea for your family?
Joint custody has long since garnered a good reputation for helping out children of divorce. However, even largely popular options do not always serve every family equally. In fact, joint custody is not a good idea for some families. Why is this, and how can such...
How can I co-parent with a narcissist?
Parenting after a divorce is challenging, but if your ex-partner is a narcissist, the challenge rises to an entirely new level. Signs of narcissism include delusions of grandeur, a self-exaggerated sense of importance and a lack of empathy. Dealing with a narcissist...
How does parental alienation harm the parent-child relationship?
After a divorce, the best case scenario is your children adjusting to the split household without many mental health issues. Unfortunately, some parents make the adjustment period worse by alienating the children. According to Psychology Today, parental alienation...
What to do if your ex-spouse takes your child out of the country
When parents can not agree on custody or are unhappy with the decision of the court, there is often a fear that one parent may take the kids and run. This becomes a more complicated situation when there is a fear that the parent may flee the country. If your ex-spouse...
How can you deal with a narcissistic co-parent?
While certain parts of co-parenting may feel simple, dealing with a narcissistic co-parent who wants to take up your time can cause you stress. Learning about common ways to deal with this situation can help you make the best choices possible for you and your...