Discussing divorce with your children is one of the most challenging conversations a parent can face. Navigating this subject requires thoughtful planning, open communication and an understanding of your children's emotional needs. There are steps and considerations...
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Is it time to file for divorce?
Every relationship faces challenges, but sometimes, it becomes necessary to ask the hard questions about your future together. Determining whether it is time to end a marriage is an emotionally charged decision, one that requires careful thought and self-reflection....
Can a divorce make you happier?
Divorce is a major life decision that often comes with a complex mix of emotions. For some people, it may seem like a painful end to a relationship, while for others, it might signify a new beginning. Happiness is a subjective experience, and what might lead to...
What is the basic process to get a divorce?
For many people, getting a divorce is their first interaction with the legal system. It is already an emotional situation, so adding in this element of the unknown can increase the stress. California makes the divorce process as easy as possible, but it does depend on...
Could you benefit from parallel parenting during your divorce
Are you going through a divorce in California and wondering how to maintain a healthy environment for your children? It can be tough to manage co-parenting during this emotional period, but a concept called 'parallel parenting' may be beneficial for you. Parallel...
Filing for a restraining order against your spouse
In situations involving domestic violence or threats of harm, individuals may find themselves contemplating the necessity of filing for a restraining order against their spouse. A restraining order, also known as a protective order or an order of protection, is a...
Is your spouse hiding assets in your California divorce?
In the emotionally charged process of a divorce, it is unfortunate that sometimes one party might attempt to hide assets to skew the financial settlement in their favor. This act is not only unfair, but it is also illegal. In California, both spouses must disclose all...
Understanding spousal support
Spousal support is payment that a current or ex-spouse pays the other to cover the other's living expenses. This is a court-ordered payment, and not all judges will grant support. There are two types of support. A judge considers various factors when determining the...
Changing the amount of a California child support order
Once a California child support order takes effect, the parent with an obligation to pay support must continue to do so until the child turns 18, unless extenuating circumstances are present. In the event that you or your child’s other parent experience something that...
How to talk to your children about divorce
The decision to end a marriage is never easy, and discussing it with your children can be one of the most challenging aspects of the process. By approaching this delicate conversation with sensitivity and forethought, you can help your children better understand and...